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trondor
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Post subject: Re: What's your idea of a good (romantic) relationship?  Posted: Tue Jun 01, 2010 5:25 am |
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GeorgeWho wrote: I was talking about the ideal relationship. We are idealists, aren't we ? I didn't mean that these things shouldn't be present in a relationship, I meant that in the ideal relationship they wouldn't be needed. Ahh. I find this idea linked to the idea of heaven, a state of neverending joy without any kind of friction.. It is tempting, but would we not stagnate? Is it ideal to never feel bad? I dunno. I guess I am a bit skeptical to the idea that pain is always bad. Perhaps I want bad feelings to have meaning to better deal with them. Like, if I know this is good for character and growth then it is more endureable  I sound like Calvin's father in Calvin and Hobbes
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Post subject: Re: What's your idea of a good (romantic) relationship? Posted: Tue Jun 01, 2010 11:05 am |
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Post subject: Re: What's your idea of a good (romantic) relationship? Posted: Wed Jun 02, 2010 5:35 pm |
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trondor wrote: I find this idea linked to the idea of heaven, a state of neverending joy without any kind of friction.. It is tempting, but would we not stagnate?
i love having someone who challenges me.
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Post subject: Re: What's your idea of a good (romantic) relationship? Posted: Tue Mar 22, 2011 4:52 pm |
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...when there's synergy. Synergy is sexxxy - when the whole is greater than the sum of its parts - when you derive energy from both being with and being apart from each other, rather than sucking all the energy out from each other by demanding too much from each other.
...when each other's nervous energy creates shared momentum with moments of calm allowed to creep in to keep things from getting too frenetic
...when there is time and space to move forward serenely and to look back at the good things we shared rather than wearing each other out by demanding too much, too soon
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Post subject: Re: What's your idea of a good (romantic) relationship? Posted: Sun Apr 17, 2011 9:30 am |
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two people who continually entertain each other through innovative wit but yet, expect nothing "major" of each other. they support and hope for the greatest possibilities of each other through furious affection while circling possibilities. 
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Post subject: Re: What's your idea of a good (romantic) relationship? Posted: Sat Jun 18, 2011 7:49 pm |
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A good (romantic) relationship is a relationship in which you make each other happy...and happiness is created differently for everybody, because everybody has his/her own view/opinion on what happiness is...and how to accomplish it.
_________________ You don't know what you have until it's gone... 
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crystaluniverse
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Post subject: Re: What's your idea of a good (romantic) relationship? Posted: Fri Jul 01, 2011 6:02 pm |
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Sorry to be superficial, but I think that a good romantic relationship must involve hearty meals! ;p
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